The Woman: Dreams, prescense felt irl, and astral projection experiences -- putting pieces together

So, ive noticed that in dreams, the woman has a distinctive sense of fashion that i might be able to narrow down to an era (possibly 1800s-early 1900s?)

Ill post links that give an idea of how she dresses in dreams.

For pretext, she is a figure ive dreamed of since I was about 10... she and I have a personal twin-like connection (she told me that we are twins, we are a part of each other, etc).

So dreams often take place in a forest, type of place. One of them was a cabin in the forest (that she owned, and knew the forest well because she caught me a day and a half (about) after I tied to escape from the cabin (she kept me in the basement) in the dream. Idk if this dream was some past life memory or symbolic in nature. The dream was quite detailed and it felt like a day and a half, until i got caught.

In a lot of the dreams, the woman uses dark grey wind like (or fog) energy to travel or materilize out of.

In another dream, I was shown how I had been running from her for many lifetimes, the dream ending with the current lifetime (this one).

Here are links that show how she appears and how she dresses (might give clues?):

https://pin.it/6kSwgTCns (like this but skirt is less poofy, and longer)

https://pin.it/2NvbzQjVR (this is close, but top would be trench-coat style like above link)

https://pin.it/1mHuu4ulf (this is close too, but long skirt... and calf high boots, heavy duty boots..)

She always dresses in dark Grey's and blacks color-wise and formal-like but not modern..

Now for her physical appearance:

https://pin.it/N6m6lICsE (she had silver-white hair in ONE dream when she was performing surgery on me... ignore the outfit, face and hair, except it wasnt done up is accurate)

https://pin.it/3wTv8ln08 (face structure is accurate, her features are sharp.. especially cheek bone and jawline, ignore outfit)

Her hair is always dark, either dark brown or black..cant tell. And her eyes are silver-grey. Her skin is pale (almost grey). She is tall, and slender (but not thin)

Her personality is reserved, pragmatic, serious, blunt when she communicates, etc.

Now for locations in dreams:

https://pin.it/5jAGRNlx1 (this is what the hatch ladder looked like in the cabin dream) (minus the rail)

https://pin.it/3aJ0QaIb5 (the hatch door in the cabin that led to the basement where I was kept looked similar to this, but not in bad shape)

https://pin.it/6s6YkGyop (the large pond where I swam through during the second day in the cabin when running away looked like this, especially when i came apun it before swimming through it)

https://pin.it/7BYSSsSgr (the road looked kinda like this, although it was a bit wider... it looked barely used or even abandoned. It was in the middle of the forest where her cabin was.. it took a day and a half to get from the cabin to this road, but this is also where she caught me.. heavy fog suddenly materilized in the atmosphere before she appeared out of it and grabbed me..)

https://pin.it/AT7NzLdqJ (in another dream I came apun her in a circular large grass clearing in the middle of a forest, similar to this but grass instead of whatever flowers wild plants this is... and trees all around the perimeter... this one she was sitting on a wooden stool type of chair in the middle of the grass field and when I approached her, she turned her head to me and sternly said "you are not ready for a relationship, I am")

https://pin.it/5HA8zwrin (the kind of mirror that she stood, facing when she said "I am a part of you, as you are of me)

https://pin.it/37cI0nFVx (the type of latern she held in another dream, although it was more rectangular shaped)

Things said to me by her in dreams or astrally:

I am a part of you, as you are of me

we are twins and twins

While your mind and body might be weak, it is your spirit that attracts me to you

you are not ready for a relationship, I am

you will be with me

And recently, I woke up with two purple flower heads (only the petals but they were intact in shape) on the floor right outside my bedroom door, after I had some conflict, mostly being insulted by being called weak and I told her off (via note because I dont know if spiritual beings can read minds or if I can communicate effectively telepathically)