My dad gave me my ED and now he's triggering it again.

When I was young my dad was a chef(and also >!abusive!<) so when he cooked he'd serve food to me even if I told him I wasn't hungry or I already ate, >!he'd yell and say I have to eat it and I'm ungrateful!<, and ofc I'd eat afraid he'd >!hit!< me, he'd even make me get seconds even if I felt >!sick!< from how much he made me eat. This across years made me >!obese and develope BED(from age 5 wow), he also gave my mom BED. Now recently(1-2 weeks ago)!< he came over to eat and he said he usually goes >!72 hours without eating!< on a regular basis. And for the past week he keep repeating how he >!barely eats, how no one needs to eat everyday and you should wait 3-4 days between meals.!< Which is wow...triggering especially since at >!13 I developed bulimia and have had it now for 5 years!<. It's super annoying because of how often he says it .