I think im becoming spoiled

I 14(TM) have grown up un upper middle class for my entire life, besides an unfortunate period from 22-23, but after the 2023 my grandparents have been spoiling me more, like on thanksgiving i got an early present from them (iphone 17 air) i think they feel bad about what happened because they also promised me a trumpet and a german clarinet for Christmas aswell, along with me asking santa for a really expensive guitar (fuck all yall santa deniers), but i feel like im asking for too many expensive things especially in the state of the world. im not trying to flex or anything but im honestly rlly scared im becoming spoiled because ive seen so many horror stories of spoiled kids growing up to be nothing as adults because they always had everything handed to them, should i start trying to become more independent or something?