Venting about loot

Ok so I was playing the valkyries raid or whatever it’s called but this dumb*ss recluse had a black blade greatsword ( I was playing wylder) and just taunted me with it while I had a cleanrot spear as my weapon and wouldn’t drop it. We lost the game and I don’t know if it would have made a difference but it would have been nice to have a greatsword as wylder on night 3.