19 [M4F] Cute soft boy looking for a relationship with an older(20-25) and taller(5'5-5'11+) woman.
Hello. I am trying to find a woman who is okay with leading a relationship and lives somewhere in California or anywhere in or near the West Coast. I would also like to meet in person one day if that is okay with you because I don't want to be mostly long distance or online if you live outside of California/far away and are able to travel/drive.
Please read everything.
About Me:
• I'm a femboy, but I consider myself a soft boy since I have very few feminine clothing/makeup. I would love to try different kinds and see what I'm comfortable with and what will fit me.
• Appearance-wise, I stand at 5'1. And I have a skinny build with medium beige skin. I have black hair, dark brown eyes, thick thighs, and a soft butt.
• Personality-wise, I am kind of easily excitable and enjoy doing fun stuff. Sometimes, I become quite mischievous. I also tend to like comfort and warmth and if I am comfortable enough, will ramble about my interests or hyperfixation at the time. I'm also pretty awkward a lot of the time and introverted. But I also am very shy, have anxiety, and I get scared easily. I also am very over-apologetic, even if they aren't my fault.
• My top interests(which are all over the place) are Sanrio, Hot Topic, Japanese culture, furries, video games, Hellaverse, anime, plushies, cartoons, adult animation, and movies. I am also a huge nerd for dinosaurs/Paleozoic creatures, animals, and monsters/mythical creatures.
• My top favorite bands are Ice Nine Kills, Pierce The Veil, My Chemical Romance, BTS, The Cranberries, and No Doubt. I game on PS4, Nintendo Switch, Wii, and DSi, but I haven't done so a lot this past month.
• I have Snap, Insta, and Discord if you want to talk off here after a while. I'll use my PS4 if you are into/do online gaming(it's the only one that can go online), but you also having one isn't required if you have cross-platform games like Fortnite or don't game a lot. And when we exchange selfies, I would like it to be after we have talked for a while because I want us both to be comfortable with each other beforehand.
• For hobbies, I'm kind of a jack-of-all-trades. I really like music and play guitar and piano, plus I sing. And I also like learning how to cook and am a big fan of food. I unapologetically like pickles and weird food combinations. I also like reading when there's nothing else to pass the time.
• To be honest, I have no experience but I know what I am into. I am kind of a switch, but lean more toward being subby since I like the idea of being emasculated and made to feel smaller than I already am. And I would love to try things out and see what I like or would be into. But I would also like for you to be open-minded. So far, I am into gentle femdom, Mommy Domme(not sure if I'm a little), gentle smothering, being gently squeezed, reassurance, praise, impact play, and things as such. My limits are anything to do with blood, waste fluid, extreme kinds of pain/discomfort, or PIV/PIA from me(don't ask why unless I am open to discussing).
When we start talking, I want to take things at a slow pace so we can get to know each other and see where things go. And when we are able to meet in person, it would be nice to hang out, go to the park, a restaurant, arcade, the movies, the mall, or just anywhere or anything that we both would enjoy going to or doing. My love language would be stuff like helping to make stuff, snuggling/cuddling, comfortably/sleepily nuzzling into your chest, and things as such. I also might enjoy things like being picked up, spooning, or playfully teased.
It would also be great to help each other step out of our comfort zones every now and then. I would want to wait until we are comfortable with each other and click before doing anything 18+, and I would want your consent beforehand.
About you:
• I mostly like women of color because I find them beautiful and pretty. But it's okay if you aren't though, so no worries.
• Cisgender.
• Appearance-wise, you are either average build, curvy, chubby, muscly, or any body type as such.
• If you have either freckles or anything as such, that's alright. And if you are goth, scene, or anything like that, that's okay. Tattoos and dyed hair are okay as well.
• Personality-wise, it would be great if you have a tomboyish and badass side, but also have a softer and caring side. You should also be a good person towards and aware of others, honest, and responsible. Plus able to take care of yourself and others. You would be protective of me, but allow me to do the same.
• I'd also like for you to have a goofy, silly, playful, and nerdy side and be the kind of person who would enjoy playful banter, light teasing, playfighting, dumb humor and jokes, or anything as such.
• If you have a job or college, that's fine as long as it isn't a busy schedule. And any hobbies and/or interests like cosplaying, reading, or the like are okay as well.
• If you go to the gym, exercise, do sports or do other kinds of physical activity that you enjoy, that sounds cool, but isn't required. And it would be great if you know how to defend yourself.
You must not have kids and must not be married/already seeing someone because I do not want to be a homewrecker. Also, you must be left-leaning, and be in PST or closer/similar time zones. You also should not be only interested in money, do not have Onlyfans, do not ghost/block after a while, a dry texter, a faker, do not want fwb/hook-ups or anything as such.
It would also be nice if you do not smoke and are drug-free, but it's okay if you are quitting or do it rarely. And it should also not be to the point of having illness. You also should not be into drinking. But it's fine if you are into non-alcoholic drinks or cocktails.
If you fit any/some of these, feel free to DM/HMU. When you do, please start with your age, height, and stuff about you like hobbies and/or interests. Sorry that this was a lot to read.
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 10:56 PM UTC