I can feel that Otis takes everyone forgranted

I can feel that Otis takes everyone forgranted in his life. I like him alot but otis in season 1 is another level. But after season 1 he mostly takes forgranted everyone whether it's is mom, eric, maeve, fabiola and most of the times ruby. I agree before season 3 she was portrayed as a mean bitch but as we see in season 3, she was one of most soft hearted person. She really liked otis but otis keep on taking her for granted and never leave a chance to leave her. First in car, then in school and last time in ruby home. It feels like otis never gave a effort to he and ruby together. The only efforts he gave that changing his dressing sense and that stupid eating silently because he doesn't want to stop the sex he is having