Does anyone else have a deadline?

It’s been 4 months since the break up. I’m not ready for a serious relationship, but I know that I need to cut the cord and move on. I’ve been in therapy, meeting new people, working out and it definitely has helped. I’ve been asked out twice since I left, and know eventually I need to allow other love in. However, there is that spot inside of me holding onto hope of him contacting me. I know it is unlikely, but I still can’t shake that feeling. I decided I’m giving it until the end of December and if it’s still silence then that’s it for me. I will be taking that as he has decided to fully let me go and now I will do the same.