AITAH for wanting to seduce a married man

EDIT: i am not going to sleep with this dude or anything, i m just trying to find out his contact info as he doesn't have his insta linked and doesnt have any photos on tinder

Throwaway for obvious reasons.

Some background: I (27F) got dumped by my fiancee (28M) rencently. While I was being very stressed with writing my Master's thesis and maybe not investing as much attention to the relationship as I should have, he decided he could do better and left me. Before he did tho, he became kinda smexually abu.ssive, groping me when i told him to stop repetedly. Also, he was blaming everything that was going wrong in the relationship on me and wasn't willing to do any of the work himself, fully beliving that I am the one that should win him over again after 'being a lazy bi.tch' and repeating my last year of uni twice. Generally speaking, he treated me like cr.ap (btw, i have ADHD and doing such large projects as academic thesis isn't my stong pointy 4sure. I did manage to speed run and finish my studies after being left alone and not called useless everyday). So, we broke up almost half year ago after 5 year long relationship, 2 years engaged. He found new GF pretty quickly, I am still not entirely ready to date. Tl;dr: i am quite pissed off at men in general after being treated as disposable garba.ge by the person i though was the love of my life.

To the point. I downloaded Tinder today and stumbled upon a profile of a dude (M36) admitting he is married and is looking for a lo.ver. That pissed me off a lot. There is a poor woman somewhere, carring for this dude, pouring her time, energy and life into him. Meanwhile he is on a dating app, thinking he is the prize and he already has a free servant at home, so it's a high time to look for some younger kitty outside. So, i hit him up, pretending I am interested in screwing him, fully intenting to do my best to mess this man up and send everything to his wife as soon as I find out who exactly he and she are. So far i managed to get his name and general location of his place and also gave him blues balls. He is begging me for nudes and told me all about how he wants to fu.ck me, so screenshot wise, I've got enough evidence. Some more work and i could inform his wife. I pulled the plug for now, leaving him complaining on blue balls bcs i got moral dilemma.

Question is, if u were in his wife shooes, would you want to know? And to find out this way? Getting screenshots of your man telling other, much younger, woman that u r a good housewife, but he wants to try how some new kitty tastes like and some other graphic detalis? Tbh, I think if I was in her place, it would completetly send me spiraling. Idk what her situation is, maybe she is financially dependent on him, pregnant or doesn't have friends to support her though all of this? What would you do?