Should I push for a second date or just let it be

I M24 just got done with a coffee date that lasted 2 hours with F23, the date was good but I'm not going to lie to you, to no fault of her own, I just felt so exhausted of dating

Before going on this date I had another date with a different girl a few weeks back where it turns out that after 2 months of talking and 3 dates she never had any inclination to date me and it was only until I asked her how she was feeling she eventually did tell me that, it hurt me so much I almost cried in front of her

This was running in my mind when meeting this new person, I met her, we had been talking on hinge for about a week and planned to meet today at a coffee shop and I felt things seemed to go well, the date dragged on at the end a bit but I cut it off and hugged her goodbye

She is usually incredibly fast when responding on hinge but I think she may just ghosted, but she did say she had a good time, but who knows, I just feel incredibly exhausted, I feel exhausted from 1st and second dates that don't go anywhere, I'm exhausted of people who already know they have no intentions of a relationship, but choose not to voice it until pressed on it

I'm exhausted, and it looks like this trend may just be what my dating life is, 1st and second and even third dates that end with nothing more than just disappointment and no shared feelings