Where to meet new people in KC

Hello everybody I am a 33m bi man and have been married to my wife 32f for 15 years. My wife and I both like the idea of having a sexual experience with a gay man together. We live in KC and are new here and have no clue where to go and meet new people. We would like to meet someone more friendship intended instead of a random hook up. Any ideas of cool places to hang out go out for coffee or a bite would be awesome thank you.