37 [M4F] #SanFrancisco #BayArea - genuine guy looking for a genuine connection

I find myself very lonely and desiring a connection with someone who will genuinely be interested in me. Someone who can be light and fun, but more importantly someone who actually has a heart (so rare nowadays) and values deep emotional connections. To what end? I am open to anything, from something casual to something serious, as long as it would be a long-term connection. I just want to have someone with whom to give and receive attention, affection, and warmth. I’m all about reciprocation. You show me interest and respect and I’ll give you that and more!

But who am I?

-Latino/hispanic, 6’0, handsome, slim/fit, shaved head, healthy, DDF.

-INFJ, transparent (what you see is what you get), respectful, masculine, chivalrous, emotionally mature/intelligent, genuine, self-aware, down-to-earth, chill, introverted, compassionate, very much a nice guy, as a huge goofball if you make me comfortable ;p

-PhD in engineering from a top school, well-established in a STEM field, well-off

-Huge video game nerd here (JRPGS ftw XP)! I also enjoy watching shows/anime/movies, going for long walks, and having deep/philosophical talks

Big disclaimer here: I am married and I have kids. Understand that my marriage has been horrendous and I have no love for her. You will likely say that I need to divorce. Yeah, duhhh, I’ve been down that route before, having filed twice (though I had to cancel both times). Unfortunately, having kids complicates things. I’m happy to give you more details if you are interested. BUT consider my transparency in disclaiming this information. What do I stand to gain by telling you this if I had bad intentions? Bad boys either are secretive or make it clear that they are looking to hurt you. I am a reasonable person and if I am to talk to or get involved with anyone, my intention is not to hurt them but to work with them to see what we can do moving forward. Trust me on this and you won’t regret it. :)

How should you be?

-Demographic: 18+ (no upper limit). Any race is okay. It would be nice if you are somewhat local but I'm okay with any location.

-Physically: be in decent shape; I take care of my body so I hope you do too; likewise be happy to exchange pictures (can be SFW) as mutual physical attraction is important.

-Please understand discretion.

Let’s connect and chat and see where it takes us! Include your age, location, and what you’re looking for if you message me. Thanks!