Basically I had a huge blow up the day before thanksgiving with BPDm because I refused to succumb to her wants after repeatedly telling her “no”. 

More specifically, she wanted me to make a cornucopia out of bread (seen on instagram) with her and fill it with fruit as our “contribution “ towards my in laws thanksgiving feast. This would have been the first time my parents would have joined me at my husbands family’s home for the holidays and my mom was assigned the assorted fruit tray. Think the $8 trays from Harris teeter with pineapple, grapes , melon. Well that was not flashy enough for mother , she was majorly offended , and she reeeeally needed to go over the top with this damn cornucopia. Begging me for help , I repeatedly told her no I will not be helping because that’s 1) not what they’re asking for 2) I’m 5 months pregnant and miserable 3) because I said no. She kept badgering me the week leading up thinking I’d crack eventually and I didn’t. The day before thanksgiving she tried me one more time , I said no , and ohhhh guess who’s the worst daughter ever ?? That would be me. 

“You’re horrible, you should feel bad about yourself. I can never ask my family for anything “. That was exactly what I needed to hear to rescind her invitation and effectively cancel her thanksgiving. I told her she was no longer welcome at my in laws, I would not be seeing her Christmas , not at my baby shower and not once my child is born. It’s been crickets since. Praise the lord… until just now I got the text I see on this subs feed every day. The one where they are so hurt but will respect childs feelings and stay away. You already failed at staying away with this damn text lady !!!! Omg. Anyways now I’m sitting here with my blood pressure through the roof because this woman just can’t help herself. I know she’s looking for a response. Any response at all that she can grab onto and it will 100000% end in a fight if i do respond. I’m not taking the bait. So I guess I’m just here taking it out on this post instead so I don’t buy into her nonsense. 


Btw her comment about missing all the holiday stuff we do together is just further proof it’s all about her. Because she knows I hate doing all that stuff. She’s so over the top and sickly sweet at the holidays it makes my skin crawl to the point where going to holiday musicals and craft shows is my nightmare. After she’s tortured me through these activities she goes “would it kill you to have fun ??? You’re horrible !! I can never ask my family to do anything with me waaahhhhh 😭😭😭😭” 

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Happy holidays homies ! 

Another holiday guilt text