I challenge you. Do this one thing.

Ladies, if you are on dating apps, I challenge you to create another profile on the same app, but this time one with the personality of the man you are looking for. For a small time before the app requires you to validate your identity, use public pictures of models etc or have AI generated an image for you and use that.

The objective? Scroll the app for all ages ranges to scout out the ladies that are posting on these apps. See what these men are seeing , what they are experencing, I would even go further to say match with some of these ladies and see how the conversations flow.

Believe me when I tell you that you will never see OLD the same way again.

For me, I came off the apps completely. But I don't want to colour your experience if you decide to do it. It really is eye opening.