30 M4F #Detroit #Michigan - Toward Winter Warmth or: Finding a Fireside Companion

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So we didn't find our summer fireworks and we didn't fall into an autumnal romance. I remain, for some reason, an optimist. And while I don't enjoy the cold, it's good motivation to find someone with which to stay warm.

What you should know: I'm looking for someone local to Metro-Detroit. I'm introspective, considerate, and try to remain empathic. I'm an introvert but I'm not shy. I've got the Big D (depression) but I'm working on it. I value real conversation.

I'm a big fan of movies (Film, even 🧐), reading, fitness, getting outside when the weather allows, and pizza (gotta carb up in the winter). I'm 5'7" and far from a gym bro but I try to stay active and, at the absolute peak of my self-confidence (aka, a few bourbons), I've said to myself "Yeah, you'd fill out a Spidey-suit pretty well." (Embarrassing! What am I even talking about??)

I'm trained as a designer, have a pretty boring office job, and like to dabble in creative endeavors like photography. Yes, you heard that right: I'm fully employed and have a car!

What I'm looking for: as mentioned, someone local. Someone who shares at least some of my interests and/or is interested in exploring, growing, and learning. Someone who also values good conversation, intimacy, and creativity.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, please shoot me a chat with a fun fact about yourself. I'm happy to swap pics early (but no pressure)!

Talk to you soon!

Ben

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 11:46 PM UTC · locked

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