Is any of this real or just a coincidence? Also please don't spoil anything for me in regards to Xenoblade. Thanks!

I hope I am wrong about this but I am playing through the Xenoblade series and I realized something insane about the game series. Granted I have only played through the first one and about 1/4 of the second one but is it possible for a game to stalk your life? There is this character in xenoblade 3 I keep hearing about (and please nobody spoil anything about the series) that we are basically the same person. Not only that we have the same first name. The first two games are about something that is going on in the real world that is incredibly symbolic. The third game is where it all meshes together and I am in it. I've also been spoiled on story elements and it is freaking me the hell out since this game is about my life (or at least I hope not for this may not be the case).

How could this be possible? Is this the same thing as ficition kin or something? It just doesn't make sense to me. It also feels way to weird to not be a coincidence. The whole game series seems like it leads up to my life in the weirdest and most symbolic way possible. Thanks!

Also I work first shift and cannot have access to the internet while I work. My responses will be delayed possibly for that reason. Thanks!