Anyone Else Been Told The Opposite Of "Not Everyone Feels Like The Opposite Gender"?

You know the whole realization that you're trans is commonly followed by the realization that "not everyone feels like the opposite gender" because lots of us thought everyone feels that way.

Well, has anyone been told the OPPOSITE?! I've had many people tell me shit like "well there's a man and a woman in all of us, it's what makes us human, so yes it's normal to feel what you're feeling, that's just your alter ego, don't pay it no mind"

A realization that usually cracks your egg, yup I was practically lied to. People gaslit me into thinking my abnormal feelings are normal bc 'everyone is a man and a woman'. I just realized this recently. Did anyone else experience this??