Do girls like toxic guys more?

I dont want to post this as an attack against any women. Since ive stated dating I feel like I do everything right I can. I hold doors, buy flowers, and say nice things about them all the time to let them know i care. I ask questions about them, care about their interests, show them my interests weather its martial arts or singing. I really put in a lot of effort but what usually happens is I get stood up, broken up with, or they start some drama that ends with me being the bad guy for not wanting to be part of it. And even a few times where they have said they didnt even care from the start.

And its happened multiple times where I see these girls will just prefer guys who are toxic, look homeless, dont care about them, and genuinely have no future whatsoever, and treat them like literal subhumans. I dont know if its girls my age but it just makes me sad how if I had the right one I would do anything for her and they end up with someone who only wants to use them and doesn't care about them. And I know im not the best guy by a longshot but still I hate to have had this happen multiple times. It just hurts that I would want to give my heart to someone and they would use it like it was nothing.