Need Relationship advice

Hello everyone

i am 35yo and my bf is 39yo. weve been together since 2021 and is in an Ldr. nasa pinas siya and nasa us ako. May mga away kami here and there mostly small stuff na pinapalaki niya. recent fight namin is when i dropped off food sa frend kong girl while ka videocall ko siya. yung frend kong girl is babaeng bakla. nung pinakita ko sya sa bf ko sabi ng frend ko "ui punta kana dito magharutan tayong tatlo". while im driving home, i can tell na nagbago na timpla ng kood niya. yun pala ang pagkakaintindi nya sa sinabi ng frend ko is "ui punta kana dito para tatlo na kayo" (na parang meron ako iba bf dito). i explaine dit to him then he brought up more issues

• hindi daw lumalabas sa messenger nya yung active status ko. ngscreenshare ako sakanya showing ma diko binabago settings ko. pero sakanya wala daw akong green light. so u install then install. wla padin daaw. i know na in his head na ginagawa ko yun para di nya alam n online ako which is not true

-hindi na daw ako tumatwag or nguupdate if im i. my breaks. this one is true. reason i dont make calls is because madaling araw sa pinas during my breaks and i dont want other people nakikinig sa usapan (madaming pjnoy sa workplace)

its like these everytime. small things becomes too serious. also red flag ba kung dds siya? i dont know.

so i was thinking of breaking up and i dont know how to say it in his face nor i want to do that. i want to break things up kasi i dont want to live a life na may partner akong making small things and issue.