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kat_katm

35 [F4M] Vancouver, BC - Seeking a Genuine Long-Term Connection

Strictly Clean/SFW (NO ADULT ACTIVITIES)

I’m a 35 y/o Caucasian woman, looking to meet someone in a similar age range (within reason). I’m 5’7'', child-free, never married, and I’m fit, and weight lift daily.

I’m someone who loves a good balance of staying active, getting lost in a book, and experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen. I have around 25 plants, and enjoy gardening. I appreciate art, museums, and I like to try different activities/experiences in that vein. I enjoy self-care and continuous learning about personal finance. I’m also a huge fan of horror movies, live shows, and the occasional movie marathon. The last live shows I attended were NIN and Deftones.

I’m an introverted extrovert. 

I’m a cat owner.

I value deep, meaningful conversations and personal growth. Being able to communicate openly, show compassion, and be accountable are big things for me in any relationship.

I would date someone less tall than me. Height is not a factor for me, but compatibility is.

I would be open to dating an Asian or Hispanic man, not just Caucasian.

I’m attracted to normal or average body types. I don’t particularly care if you work out, but it would be nice if you had a similar lifestyle.

I appreciate a man who can cook and/or bake.

I’m strictly monogamous.

If you’re also looking for something genuine and long-term, I’d love to hear from you.

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 11:52 PM UTC · locked

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