40 [M4F] #SC, #US #online looking for long term IRL dynamic
Greetings,
I am looking for a long term IRL dynamic with an obedient BDSM loving, submissive. I enjoy living the lifestyle as much as I can, and what I am seeking can be a bit to describe. So I’ll try my best, and hopefully it is you.
The woman I am seeking, cooks, cleans, she enjoys BDSM, enjoys the traditional roles, and life style. She is subservient, obedient, likes to be controlled in her daily life. She enjoys to be given tasks to complete, she enjoys having her bed time, wake up time, daily routine, clothing, all controlled by me. She knows orgasms should be and are controlled by her dominant. When we go out, she enjoys me ordering her food for her, she is shy in public, and enjoys me speaking for her. She’s open to exploring sexually, in a safe, sane, consensual way. Shes open to staying at home, not worrying about anything, besides the house, and serving me in every way, possible. She’s enjoys daily spankings, and domestic discipline.
I want her to be strong and tall in her submission, yet feel small and powerless with me. I want her to strive to be the best, while I maintain strict discipline, routines, and positively reinforce good behavior. I want her to have no worries, free from decisions, daily stress, for in submission comes freedom.
I would love for this to be a TPE relationship, which I fully understand most are not comfortable with that commitment. I firmly believe that over time, trust is built, boundaries are established, and it could lead to a TPE relationship, if the perfect woman exists and are open to it.
About me: I am a huge history buff, I live in a perfect area that I get to explore when I get a chance. I love watching documentaries, comedies, action movies, I enjoy a good book from time to time. I spend time weekly researching BDSM, and reading different articles. I believe despite being in BDSM for approximately 20+ years, I never stop learning. I believe in structure, discipline, never abuse. I believe in RACK, and SSC with this lifestyle.
I work odd days, and hours, mostly days. I am very open to fantasies, and limits, respectful of both, and encouraging when appropriate. I am located in the Charleston, SC area, and am seeking if you are interested feel free to write.
Thank you, and have a wonderful day!
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 11:54 PM UTC · locked