My boyfriend made me insecure

Ok so I’m going to be completely honest. I (23F) have been going out with my boyfriend (27M) since March of 2025. When we started having intimacy we talked about how many partners we both had in the past. Although I know I’m kinda young I did have a bad year from 2022-2024 where I was just rotating my partners. He is number 19 (I am not proud of that trust me)I didn’t tell him that though so I just gave him a number of 6. He never told me his number but he just always said it wasnt as much as I think it is. And tbh I never wanted to know the exact number cause I will admit I would probably get upset lol.

Anyways we started talking about numbers and he said at first he didn’t believe I only had 6 and I asked him why he thought that. He said it was cause of how my outie looked like. I asked him what he meant by that and he said it was the way it looked. Honestly I always was somewhat insecure about my outie since it is very out I guess? But hearing that from my partner really affected me. I never had my previous partners tell me that and although I don’t have the perfect innie I wish I had I never thought it would deeply hurt me like this. I told him I couldn’t control what my outie which has always looked that was.

My insecurity got so bad I was seriously considering getting a labiaplasty. All from that one comment he meant. I had brought it up to him a couple months after saying that i randomly thought about what he told me and it made me feel very insecure. He did apologize and said he never meant for it to deeply affect me. But it does always make me think about the fact that all his previous partners probably didn’t have one like mine. Which makes me more insecure about myself.

He’s a great guy and I know that he does love me. He’s always shown it and has been there for me in a lot of ways previous partners have never been. I just don’t know how to shake the thought of what he said off. Especially when I see other girls that pop up on my twitter and how theirs look so different than mine.