Trans lesbians and ffs

Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but are any other trans lesbians sick of the expectations straight trans women have of ffs? All my trans friends are straight, and they constantly talk about ffs and other surgeries and ask me what I want to get done, but I am happy with my face, I don't feel the need to be a 10/10 with a whoville nose, I am happy looking like my mother with my strong Roman nose.

I feel like a lot of trans women get ffs to conform to the male gaze, but since I don't care what men think I am fine not being perfect in their eyes (doesn't stop them hitting on me every time I go out with my girlfriend tho)

I just wanted to hear other views to see if this is a me thing or a gay thing tbh