Season Colours Conflicting with Essence? Dark Autumn Ingenue

Hi everyone,

as per the title, how do you accommodate potentially conflicting colour seasons and essences or even Kibbe IDs? I'm dark autumn (so dark + warm) and am trying to balance my essences, particularly my ingenue and romantic essence (I am a kibbe romantic). I feel that dark autumn colours clash with the lightness and youthfulness of my ingenue essence and favour instead my romantic essence. I feel like this is exacerbated because my kibbe ID is also romantic. The colour palette looks very natural on me, but it also seems to dim that sparkle of the ingenue essence. I've looked to a lot of celebrity ingenue/romantics for inspiration, but they all seem to fall into the lighter colour seasons anyway, so that's not been much help.

I'm a little tired of the suggestions I see for ingenues (bows, frills, etc). Not only does this not fit my style, I'm in my 30s and you cannot convince me that these have any place in my wardrobe. I incorporate other elements like movement and soft fabrics, but I sometimes think that this doesn't make up for wearing colours entirely out of my season.

I'd be really interested to hear others' opinions where their season is a mismatch from their essences and how they've adapted their style :)