Demystifying the myth about 7th house lord in 1st house

I have constantly heard that 7th house lord in 1st house, spouse will come to you and not to put any effort. Spouse will find you and all that predictions.

Bro, you are a GUY, a MAN. Do you think a girl gonna pop out of nowhere and propose or ask you out? Guys who believe this are ruined. Girls get proposed all the time, for them 7th house lord in 1st house or 5th house or 29th house or 79th house or any house means she will be approached by a guy. But, you are THE GUY, you have to approach girls, unless you are in that Top 5% category

this blind belief of "" DON"T PUT EffoRTS fOR finDINg a WifE if you HAVE 7th HOusE LorD in 1st HousE "" doesn't hold good for an average guy. Yeah, if you look like a model or crorepati (Top 5%), then 7th lord placement doesn't matter as you can get proposals.

Any kind of input from anybody is welcome!!