[Masc4Fem] [Bay Area] 21F Seeking reciprocal connection & quick first date

Hi! I'm 21F and I'll be in the Bay Area around San Jose for the next 3-4 weeks. I'm a functional, independent, intentional person looking for a reciprocal connection with someone equally secure and efficient. I'm open to seeing where things go, whether that's a long-term relationship or something casual. I'm 5'7", I present more on the masc side (my pictures are linked here), and would prefer someone who presents more fem. I value actions over words and am looking to move to a casual first date very quickly.

About me: • My time is split between studying computer science at school and my hobbies. Right now, I'm most proud of all the clothes I recently hemmed and re-sewed to fit my proportions. I value having hobbies, skills, and taking care of my own needs. • I'm a big fan of thrifting second-hand clothing & items, digital cameras, sewing/tailoring, jewelry, reading, new & retro video games, and modding handheld gaming consoles (3DS, PS Vita). I'm generally frugal, but am always willing to pay for quality experiences. I love to go out and see what fun events are going on in the city. • I really value reciprocity and prioritize clear, respectful communication. I'm comfortable with conflict repair, and I know how to apologize.

What I'm Looking For: • I'm looking for someone who is functionally available and willing to meet in person. This means you value following through, can set a date within 48 hours of matching, and respect reciprocity. I value someone with strong initiative who is comfortable taking the lead. I won't engage in pen-pal conversations. • I value people who are consistent and emotionally present. You should be able to hold your own in a conversation, be genuinely curious, and know how to offer a clear "Yes" or "No" to a plan. • I’m looking for someone grounded. If you focus only on wanting external validation, or aren't comfortable talking about actual goals/hobbies, we likely won't be a match.

If you're interested in skipping the small talk and seeing if there's real chemistry, send me a DM instead of commenting. In your message, please include this:

1. Your age and general location
2. One specific, non-generic first date idea
3. What you're most proud of accomplishing within the last 6 months
4. A quick note on what you're hoping to find (casual, LTR, etc.)

To ensure mutual safety and verify identity, I ask that you include a link to your photos in your initial message. We will exchange quick social media verification before moving to any in-person meet. I'm looking forward to talking with you :)