Non horny thoughts.

Maybe im not in the headspace to engage in misgendering? i thought i had got over my thoughts but maybe thats not as true as i would have hoped. I think it can be a very complicated kink to navigate at times and being a trans man dom makes it a different kind of complicated.

And if im being honest, i met someone though this kink and had a dynamic with him that ended up being more than a kink dynamic he became my partner, that wasnt meant to happen but it did because we got on so well.

I am not over him.

So do i really miss having a freeuse slut or do i just miss him. Am i engaging in certain things to deal with the anger i feel.

I think i need to change thevway i am going about some things.

Cant shit talk about people in this space and not recognise when im being a prat.

So yh removing misgendering from my kink diet for a bit everything else is fine