"The reason I don't open up to you, is b/c your answer to everything is to ignore it or get divorced"

Egg donor complains that I, "never open up to her," but IRL it's b/c pretty much all of her advice or solutions consistent of some form of avoidance & making sure she ain't, "bothered," by my problems. And, it's like, "I'm not saying one should stay with someone who makes them unhappy & I'm not saying that some problems you really don't have to overlook, but when you create pretty much 85-90% of my problems & when you constantly force people in my life that're toxic & abusive, it kinda feels hypocritical especially when you act like me getting tired of your bullshit makes you a victim (when it doesn't)."