40 [M4F] Philadelphia - kinky academic mental health professional

Hi, and thanks for checking out my post. I’m interested in meeting women who enjoy (or are curious about) d/s kink dynamics. I’m particularly attracted to strong willed and creative women who enjoy sexual submission. I identify as dominant but my enjoyment comes from being able to create a submissive headspace for a person who would otherwise assert herself. The trust and awareness to do that in a genuine way are appealing to me, and I appreciate when my desire to talk/chat/sext with someone if fueled by equal parts respect and lust.

I work in mental health and that consumes a great deal of my time. I do it because I love it, so I’m always up to discuss mental health, medicine, and science. I also do some teaching so if a kinky professor appeals to you we may click. My political and ethical views are based on respect for inherent dignity of all humans. I enjoy discussion and debate with anyone who can respect that basic idea. Treating anyone as lesser or unworthy isn’t a matter of debate, and any effort I put into engaging with such a viewpoint will be in lessening the effect it has on the world.

I’m mainly looking for online interactions and meeting new people. Please reach out by chat if any of this interests you.

Since this is a dirty subreddit: I’m single, enjoy all sorts of relationship dynamics, and love oral, teasing, spanking, restraint, erotic photography, d/s, and CNC with the right person. I tend to approach these things as play rather than a full lifestyle, although I usually get along with full-time kinksters too.