I have trust issues with local men and I'm worrying about my dating life

I'm a Vietnamese woman, and first of all I want to clarify that I'm not the type of person who hates my country and I don't want to talk negatively about it, I love other things about my country but it's just the cultural preferences of big boobs that makes me depressed.

I have a lot of trust issues with Vietnamese men, I think it's more of a cultural thing and preferences I guess, since men in my country have rarely ever said they prefer small breasts, at least from what i've seen on social media, I admit I haven't interact with men in real life much. Usually when there are posts asking if men feeling disappointed with small boobs, most of the comments are just generic reassurance from men: "big boobs are a plus/ are great to us but don't having them is okay, when it come to love it doesn't matter anymore so don't worry!", "you have other things like pretty face or a big ass to makeup for it!", "it doesn't matter personality are more important"... etc. other comments are from women saying men are lying to not hurt your feelings and liking big breasts are their instinct you have to accept it, some men even agreed that too small breasts makes them loose their mood a bit during sex but they have to give compliments to help her not feeling insecure, and they love her so they will "overlook" it. And they get hundreds pf hearts, basically people agreed to his opinion, MY HEART HURTS FROM READING THOSE...

And only like 5% of the comments from men saying they prefer small breasts (I think only 10 local men i have seen in my life saying they prefer small ones) I guess it's a cultural thing for me now, people here mostly think big breasts are superior and a plus, and small breasts aren't bad but just a "acceptable, can be overlooked" thing. Maybe there are more men in my country prefer small breasts than I think? But they've always stayed silent and not expressing it like Western men (at least on Reddit) do?! Or maybe they are actually rare and almost non-existing?! I don't know!! If I don't see them saying it out loud I won't believe it! I feel bad, that's why I have trust issues with local men.

Most small breasts women in my country just accept to date with men who prefer big ones, and try to not care about their preferences anymore. Lots of them have to accept it is a flaw to men and their man will accept and love it ONLY when he love them enough. They have accepted to date those men despite their preferences and do feel insecure...

But I can't! I only want to date with someone who truly prefer small ones, I don't want men who think big breasts are still a plus and only think small breasts are not a deal breaker and can be compensated for other things! I don't want settling! But I fear they're too rare to find, as least from my observation i have said above... I feel stuck... Now I want to travel aboard to date with foreign men since they seems to have more diverse preferences than men in my place, but I can't, I'm not rich enough, I'm not good at studying either so I can't study aboard... 😔 I want to date too, I don't want to stay single for my entire life but also don't want to settling for men prefer big breasts...

"He said breasts size didn't matter, but he didn't say he hasn't liked big boobs 🤷‍♀️ well you're maybe not his preference but he still choose to stay with you since he love you" from some Vietnamese guys try to explain why her boyfriend looking at revealing busty women online is a thing when a flat chested woman had a post venting she feel insecure seeing her bf did so.... Wow 🙄