What is your life like at 23

I’m 23 and honestly feel like I’m on the verge of crashing out — career-wise, financially, mentally, the whole package. I’m curious where other people my age are at.

Do you live on your own? In a relationship? Have a good relationship with your parents? A car? Are you religious or spiritual at all? Still in school? How’s your bank account looking? savings, investments, anything? And is your life right now anywhere close to what you imagined it would be?

I’m asking because I need some kind of reference point to know if I’m actually lost or just feeling lost. And please don’t hit me with the “you’re still young, it’ll work out” line. I get it, but I also want to plan my life strategically and not just vibe through it.