Dating Advice / Life Questions?

I feel like I’ve gotten so use to being alone. It’s not that I necessarily enjoy being single but I’ve gotten into such a routine of not needing to rely on a partner & to the point I can go to movies by myself & etc., I feel like it’s both good & bad because down the line I do want kids and someone to share that with and have a family. Idk I just feel like I’m falling behind in life & I’m turning 29 in 5 days. My last relationship was almost 5 years ago, is this normal? I know everyone says “it will happen when it happens,” but part of me feels like it won’t :/ at this point do I just accept it. I’m on the dating apps; hinge and tinder but nothing ever comes out of em sadly.