Tips for eating?…

So I 20f am fairly new to the queer space. I’ve known about my sexuality and have been very open about it for years. However I’m pretty reserved, I’m okay being single and I’m demisexual, so there hasn’t been much drive for me to look for a partner.

BUT I decided to give Taimi a try out of boredom and have been happily going out with a transmasc person who is AFAB. (He/they) The thing is, pretty quickly-like unusually quickly for me, we became sexually active. He’s a top-verse, so he’s mostly been giving and hasn’t really allowed me to give yet. However, they have expressed wanting some head at some point in the future.

I don’t want to be down there just PLAYING-especially since they’ve been in the queer space forever. There’s only so much you can really learn from adult content which is mostly catered to cis straight men anyways. (Why I can’t I find a stud or trans masc person pleasing and getting pleased by a woman???)

Anyways, how tf do y’all eat it?! And I need specifics!! Maybe first time stories too so I don’t feel so awkward?

Also, if any studs or trans mascs can weigh in and let me know what you like to hear your partner call/say/do to you that drives you crazy…that would be great. I need more masculine compliments and stuff so I don’t trigger any dysphoria.