Is he messing me around?
I (F 32) was in a 'situationship' with (M 34) for about 4 months. ( we knew each other prior to this) We ended up having an arguement about 'feelings' he thought i had for him, which i denied, it didnt even cross my mind as i thought it was only fun. Anyway he blocked me on whatapp after calling me a drama queen, like WTF, i literally, seriously did not have feelings for him! So 8 weeks on from the blocking i was on whatapp and noticed my updates had a green circle, so i went to check what it was, i honestly thought it was from football as im a football girl and follow alot of football but i was genuinely shocked to find it was a new status from HIM! It was as if he unblocked me seconds before he put the status up (turned on aeroplane mode) anyway he has looked at my statuses (no reaction) and its been like 3 dayz now with no contact. He went overly crazy when i told him i had no feelings for him, now im thinking he had feelings for me? His reaction did floor me abit. If not why didnt he just dropped it and continued the way we was? Am confused, i dont want to give him the disaffaction and reach out 1st incase hes messing me around etc. What do you all think? I no its not much to go on but why unblock me and let me no hes unblocked me and no contact? Why bother?
Posted Dec 9, 2025, 8:37 AM UTC