AIO for calling 911 on my mom’s ex a second time
My mom is making me (22f) feel fucking crazy. I posted 4 days ago on this same sub and that same day I went to get a restraining order.
Today my mom’s ex showed up late at night AGAIN. No knocking, no notice, was just standing on our property silently. He called my sister (12f) to try and contact her. It was my dog who alerted me again that someone was here.
I opened the back door and when my dog immediately rushed into the house I felt sick when he ran to the front of the house to sniff around. I didn’t see anything out the front window and then I looked out the window of the front door and I saw his silhouette again.. this time I immediately called 911 and told my mom and she came to look at him before going back in. I don’t know if she said anything to him but he left immediately after. 911 was on the phone with me for 20 MINUTES before they sent someone. At that point he was long fucking gone.
My mom and I got into an argument because she wanted to call him and I told her not to!!! I told her it was going to fuck up the paper trail I’m building for the restraining order!!! She was like “you don’t know these liberal judges. You weren’t there when I was in court against him”. And then proceeded to say: “he never hurt his daughter. He’s just trying to speak to his daughter.” Like what? I don’t know what to do. My sister wants nothing to do with her father. I feel crazy.
I’m going to have to represent myself in court because I’m a broke uni student and it’s my finals week. I feel so stressed and afraid and overwhelmed. Wha if he tries to hurt me because we argued and I told him his daughter wants nothing to do with him.
I’m supposed to go to Texas but I’m scared to leave my family alone. What if he hurts them.
If it weren’t for my dog we wouldn’t have had any fucking idea he was here. I’m worried and scared for my dog too.
I feel alone and overwhelmed and afraid and stuck.
Tldr: I made a post a few days ago about my mom’s ex showing up unannounced demanding to speak to his daughter. He has history of attempted murder of my mom. She’s making me feel crazy for calling 911 and seeing him as dangerous
Posted Dec 9, 2025, 8:41 AM UTC