Why do some guys think women only want “perfect” men?

I honestly don’t understand why so many men believe women only go for guys with model-level muscles and actor faces, tall, rich….. That’s just not reality. I’ve always been into shorter guys with a specific kind of look, and that’s who I’m happily with now. Yes, some of my friends care about height, sure, but saying women only think about appearance is just wrong. Personality, connection and how someone treats you matter so much to us. And honestly, men can be way more focused on looks than we are. I even have a friend who is the sweetest person ever, but because she’s not conventionally attractive, she struggles to find a boyfriend. So I really don’t get these accusations that women are the shallow ones. Attraction is personal, not one-size-fits-all.