Sooooo, im searching for a Monk's Flame Blade for a Black Flame Monk playthrough

Long story short, I've been farming The monk before the Apostle for the better end of 3 hours for this damn weapon, does anyone have one they dont use, if so, id gladly take it off your hands.....O and the Stitcher since mines apparently gone, Thank you in advance

This is NOT A TRADE OFFER, just looking for help obtaining something....if need be ill just keep farming