42 years men want younger women .

One man was introduced to me by his mama for arranged marriage earlier in magh he was 41 and now 42 already . i am 33 .He has seen many girls earlier ,wants to marry and settle, but he has always rejects every proposal. His relatives have shown him many girls, but they said he never agrees . he has so much higher expectations 😏

His mama introduced me to him. He was in Australia, and we started chatting. He hesitated about my age in the beginning, which I came to know only later . otherwise, I might not have talked to him. But his mama knew me well and told him, “She is a nice girl, I know her well,” both your age match and so on. Then he talked to me, and we had proper conversations. After few conversation , chat ,video call and after sharing everythings . He said he liked me, he found me perfect, and I was the type of girl he wanted to marry.

He even told his mama that when he talks to other girls, he doesn’t feel connected . some seem like they only want to marry to go abroad or for financial reasons. He has said, She is straightforward and genuine. I like her. I think I will marry her. So we kept talking and everything was going smoothly. As he was showing positive sign that he likes me. His mama was also encouraging me to talk more.

He came to Nepal this kartik. We met indirectly first he had come to attend his cousins wedding in pokhara at a party venue near my house. He is from Kathmandu but has his mamaghar in Pokhara and had stayed there during childhood. We meet at my house . he was the one interested to meet and talk , know my family as his cousion marriage venue is near . My mom was only there at that time .I offered him tea. He talked nicely to my mom and was very nice to me. After meeting, he told me it was nice to see me, that I look good, much younger than my age and even praised me. He seems excited.

He said, After my cousin’s wedding party, I’ll meet you personally and we’ll talk about our future planss but all of sudden he told me , i have to go to kathmandu urgently and will come and meet in few days .

After that, he stopped contacting me. I didn’t contact him either. He became completely unreachable.

My family asked his mama, and even his mama was irritated with his behavior, because he never accepts any girl no matter how good she is and how many girl he show .

His mama asked his mother, and his mother said, “The girl is nice, but nadi dosh dekhiyo china herauda . His mama had already checked our china, and it was perfect that’s why we had started talking. But his mother didn’t respond properly and just said, “China ma dosh dekhiyo, kasari garne?”

His mama tries to convince him , but he gives an excuse of nadi dosh .

Even that friend of his (the one I know) told me that he had said, good thing about you . He has also told him, don’t overthink just marry and settle. he has said i will try to convince him but i said let it be . he is not listening to his own Mama.

yestarday his mama said me that his fupu recently showed him a girl who is around 23, and now his mother is interested in her.

ps: Plz dont mock for my age yes my age is much but i also geniunely like him marry and settle.i am just suprised the kind of men he is and there is few marriage proposal for me too but i am disinterested for now . i am surprised why his mind changed ??