Idk if im actually in the wrong and maybe im actually the narcissist

My mom has been beefing with my sister (who is like the only person I actually consider family) bc shes married to a woman. Mind you, she showed up to the wedding bc "her father wasn't going to be there" he showed up, just later. I get it, boomer parents feel awkward, but he showed up. Flash forward years later, my mother has basically disowned my sister(36 happily married for 4 years) Mom went off on her for some random bs, and then pulled the card "I dont wanna talk to you until after the holidays" My sister and I made jokes that our mom would definitely see me for the holidays bc im straight

Did not go that way, she called me multiple times on a specific day I told her I was busy and got mad that I wasn't answering, I called her back later on, the amount of times she called me, now a month and a half later she is over analyzing everything and claiming shes sober

But idk, I was really mean to her, like I dont see anyone treating their moms like i do. I feel bad.

I have screenshots for those who want it, cant post it unfortunately