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hi friends..my husband having paranoid personality..he always find false in my action...my smile, tears, and expressions everything is drama to him..he believes whatever im doing is make control of him..he acts like he know very well about me but he did not know noting about me...we are recently married three months back by arrange marraige...initially i dont know about his personality disorder; I thought it was his character and opinion, so I try to change and explain, but it makes situation worse..we get into lot of fights, but every time only he blames me...so his family decided to bring little separation between me and him..even for my personal mental health i accept that condition n come to my home after that no response from his side..I was totally devastated and go to a psychiatrist for my counselling. From my conversation, she identified that my hubby have paranoid personality...he cant accept you into his private life even though he expects a connection with you, but his paranoid thoughts do not allow it in reality...in those 3 months we couldn't even consummate our marriage; he got an erection but couldn't penetrate, ejaculate, or precum..he have some sexual problem so after 3 or 4 times his failure sexual attempts with me he totally avioded me even for that he only blamed me ...never ready to accept his sexual problems...my pscycotrist told me his paranoid personalty cause harmone problems so he cant feel sexual arousal so he think you are the threat to expose his problems..so he defenitly never raeach you again but i didnot belive it in starting because personaily disorder concept is new to me...but watever she said is true he decided the divorce without consenting me...I'm totally disappointed... I and my family try to compromise with him, but he is not ready to take anyone's advice; only wanting divorce is his final decision...but I don't want divorce, so I applied for marriage cancellation... It is really hard decision for me because I'm very positive and easy person, and I planned my future with him. from our engagement time to courtship time, he was very sweet, kind, and accepting of whatever i said to him, but as soon as I started cohabiting with him, his worsen side started to show me initially i thought those symptoms were misunderstandings, so I tried to adjust my character with him, but I got a lot of depression. my court trial was starting... As per my lawyer's suggestion, I go for marriage cancellation by pointing out his sexual problems and nonconsummation...but in my heart I truly hope for reconciliation after I identify his problem. I'm thinking, "Yes, I can manage," and accepting him...but is it possible, or should I distance my life from him.. i am from india my age 32 and his age 37...it is the 1st marriage for both of us... my lawyer told me during the court trial the judge suggested counselling for you both...if you can, try to convince your husband about his opinion...but I'm really doubting my love and patience will change him or if it will worsen further what to do... Please advise me...give suggestions dr..