30 [M4F] #East Sussex #online Dom leaning switch in search of sub leaning switch

Good morning,

Thank you for clicking on my ad. I'm currently searching to connect with a sub leaning switch, preferably UK based but I'm not too fussy about that as long as time zones aren't too far apart.

SFW About me: 30 years old, very tall, dark features, tattooed, "rugby build" kind of guy. Stereotypically I love football, F1, rugby, drinks in the pub, running, and gaming. Now I'd like to think there's more to me than the superficial surface level stuff, but I suppose that would be for you to decide. I work full time, but I'm available throughout the day. I'm a bit on the chubby side, but I've lost a lot of weight in the recent year, I suppose you could call it a midlife crisis. It was either start running or get heavily into world war 2 memorabilia. Thankfully I chose running. I am married, but my wife is not involved in this at all.

SFW About you: I'm searching for someone to connect with on more than just kink. Someone who doesn't take life to seriously and is just up for having an all round good time. I'm not expecting to meet IRL, but if the situation progresses I'm not against it. I'd like to chat to people who are fun, outgoing, bubbly personalities who can hold a conversation with more than just one word replies. Oh and grammar! Please just know what an oxford comma is at least.

NSFW about me: I don't really have a "type" regarding looks. Personality is a huge turn on for me. If we can vibe and laugh while playing, I'm so into it. My kinks: As a Dom my main kinks focus on pleasure, overstimulation, bondage, rules, begging, impact play, pain (levels vary), orgasm control, low risk public, structure, teasing, sensory deprivation. These are my main ones, but I'm very open, and the list goes on.

I'm very happy to chat and see if a dynamic could be formed, something we could build on. Alternatively if you just want something bare bones, all play and no work, I'm up for it, but I can be quite sadistic when it comes to this.

I'm very much an open book and happy to explore other kinks not mentioned. I also like setting up either a safe word, or traffic light system. This is important to me, if you don't feel safe, I need to know. I'm not hung up on pictures straight away, but it would be nice when trust is formed. Not a deal breaker for me though.

I think I've probably rambled on enough, so please message me with a small introduction about yourself, your experience and what drew you to my ad.