Does anyone else go through periods of time where you hate everyone and get annoyed by the smallest things??

Advice

Okay I KNOW this sounds corny like holy edgelord but this is a real thing for me and I’m just trying to be a better person.

So I always thought maybe it’s a puberty thing with like hormonal imbalances or whatever, but I’ve noticed I go in and out of hating everyone, hating life, hating my friends and family and thinking everyone is disgusting and isn’t worth my time and energy. Like for example, my friends might just be saying something normal and in my mind I’m thinking “I hate you I know you’re just sad and alone on the inside.” I feel like I always have these thoughts but lately I’ve been filtering them way less, like my friends might say “I love slipknot I’d be such a rock dad if I was a guy” and I’ll say “ur literally such a poser brochacho you’ve listened to like 2 of their songs” which in retrospect doesn’t sound mean, and I don’t think it’s mean, I just value honesty. But I can tell my friends are starting to get pissed at how often I act like I know exactly who they are. But I’ve stopped caring and it feels like I have to use SO much energy just to say “I love that outfit on you ur so stunning” like I just can’t find it in me to try.

Idk this is kinda a non-issue but I can tell I’m losing my friends, my mum’s pissed, and I just feel annoyed and angry all the time by everyone. This has been going on for a couple months and these periods usually last like a week or two for me so I always thought they were maybe menstruation cycle related?? Idfk sorry for the yap session can yall tell im new to reddit 🫩

Posted Dec 9, 2025, 9:34 AM UTC

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