Do women genuinely compliment other woman?
I get called pretty by women a lot, and those compliments genuinely helped my self-esteem. For a while, I actually started to feel good about how I look.
But recently I made this reddit post about getting called girls by women but not getting approached guys which I deleted later.
Some comments really stung me and made me question the credibility of compliments and my self esteem plunged again.
People said things like:
women’s compliments are fake.
women hype each other for no reason.
they only say nice things to make another woman feel better.
if I were actually attractive, men would have already shown interest.
I’m not looking for validation I just want to understand what’s real.
Do women actually mean it when they compliment another woman, or is it usually just kindness or habit?
Posted Dec 9, 2025, 9:42 AM UTC