22M Struggling to get into relationships after college.
I am curious about how the people here met their respective partners because for me it is becoming extremely hard to find someone for dating.
For context i am 22M, and recently started my job this year. I have always been focused on studies and my career in school and college so i never actively approached anyone for dating. And now when i have started my career i regret not beeing more active in my college years since now it seems very hard to find someone especially for me since i don't usually go for drinks or clubbing. Although i am satisfied with everything i have achieved in my career and i have also completed a lot of my goals since i started my job but not having a partner to emotionally share my feeling and joy with has been causing me more loneliness than joy over my success.
I would appreciate any form of advice from you all to help me.
Posted Dec 9, 2025, 9:46 AM UTC