Feeling a bit lost

I (20 mtf) recently had a bit of a break and ended up telling my parents about wanting to transition. My mother is against it completely while my father only wants me to start once I manage to get a job and move out but I'm worried about how long that will take, unfortunately I live with my mother so if I get private hrt right away I would have to hide it from her. I've been bottling everything up for so long and I don't want to wait any longer. I also want to move to/study in another country but I know that's a rather difficult thing to do, especially in my current situation. ^^;

Is there any advice as to what would be the best course of action to take?