Regular friend

I am a 44 m. I am bi bit prefer guys. I am an oral bottom. I am white 5'9 220. I tend to be more submissive.

I am looking for a regular guy to play with. Someone who is not looking for a 1 time thing. Someone who is willing to start playing safe until we get to know each other but would then be open to BB eventually.

I am looking for a top who I could suck and bottom for. I would like someone who is more dom. Not crazy dom but also someone is not afraid to take charge. I am pretty open to most things except scat, blood, pain, or marks.

You must be able to host.