Androgyny

So I was born a Male, I'm 6'0 and I have long curly hair, but often find that no matter what I do I always look male, which I want to be gender non-conforming. I've developed unhealthy eating habits to try to get my jaw sharper and different, as well as finding ways to soften my shoulders, as I have extremely broad shoulders.

Does anyone have advice on how I should dress to feel or appear more androgynous? I am willing to try make-up and different ways to style my hair - I'm kinda like going with a shaggy cut. Any advice would save me so much mental struggle.

I'd also say I wanna like- have people to talk to about this more regularly - not tryna make this like a meet and greet or wtvr, just being around similar minded people would be a blessing 🙏🙏 thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuu