30 [M4F] - #Dubai #Online - not sure what to say anymore

I've been coming to this subreddit and others for a while now. Not sure how to even stand out as I've noticed many people on here are simply in the same boat.

I love my wife, and we've been married for 4 years now. No kids. I've known her for over a decade and we're really happy. My only issue is the dull bedroom, she's no where near as sexual as I am and I always end up scrolling online.. I'm usually the one to initiate things with her, and although we find eachother really attractive, she simply isn't very sexual.

It's not even something that I had noticed at all, but I was at work and I was dealing with a new supplier (I work in ecommerce) and she was being really flirty despite the ring on my finger. The way she talked, and the hints she was giving off (hoping it wasn't just all in my head), really had me realising the spark that in missing in my marriage. The dull bedroom that accompanies my marriage isn't just a sex thing, it's also that missing spark that I used to have with my wife.

As most posts on here say, "I'm not here to change my situation or yours", but most def do need a way to let this tension out from time to time.

It's not just about cumming n going, but id rather have atleast some sort of connection with whoever I'm talking to. I'd like to get to know the person, share secrets, share interests both sexual and otherwise.

I'm Arab, 6'1, relatively fit but been out of the gym for a few months so not the leanest at the moment lol

Not sure what else you'd like to know but feel free to ask whatever you'd like!