Really stressed out

For starters I've(28F) been with my ldr bf(27M) for 4 years and he expects me to do everything in the relationship in regards to flirting etc while he doesnt do anything and just goes to work and provides money(which he barely provides any maybe like $20 a month sometimes nothing) but i never ask for anything besides like $1 or two for ps plus or for him to pay my eso+ because I dont have a job.Ive had one of my cats pass in september the day before my birthday and he hates crying so I apologized for me crying cuz I was on the phone with him when it happened and instead of supporting me he yells at me for apologizing for crying.This morning I told him ive been struggling to lose weight and he got really angry(He originally wanted me to lose a few lbs which I was fine with because im a little too big for my height im 135lbs at 4'10 or else he was going to leave me by the 1st of next year) but instead he was yelling at me and has given me the silent treatment all day.Hw often yells at me because I dont give him everything he wants(which is why he yells at me and belittles me) which i already deal with by my dad who yells at me every day about something no matter what it is I get blamed or yelled at so im stressed out about my dad and my bf just constantly yelling at me all the time.Ive tried to get jobs but nobody will hire me.My mom is also going through a lot of issues with my sister,my mom is a diabetic who is also a cigarette smoker and her doctors told her if she doesnt stop smoking she will lose her legs and my mom has called the cops several times on my sister and has broken some of her stuff in her room(because my sister lives with my mom because my mom is blind so my sister takes care of her as her job) all because she wants cigarettes and she cant have any and last Friday they took my mom to the hospital because ahe was lying and saying she was going to hurt herself if she didnt get cigarettes.so yeah im just going through stress after stress after stress.mostly my bf stress rn is upsetting me.he keeps telling me to stop texting him or he gonna block me and told me to just text him tomorrow and I said no becsuse I haven't heard from him all day except for this morning.im just waiting for him to cool off for him to call me cuz he knows how upset and sad I get if I Dont talk to him.But yeah there's my vent