M19 F19 - I said I love you kind of early. She doesn’t feel the same
Yeah so I told my girlfriend of 4 days that I love her. Now when I write that out it feels actually fucking crazy that I did that. But I know I love this girl. We dated for like a month before we made it official and I guess I jumped the gun. We talked about it afterwards and she is not like scared off by my feelings, which is good and she explained that she just wants to be sure of it once she says I love you. Which I think is good and I appreciate her honesty, part of me regrets that I said it so early but I think that’s just because it looks fucking crazy on paper to say that after 4 days of being official. But why does that have to be crazy, I love this girl and when she is ready to join me in that love she will but until then I will wait for her.
So for anyone that has been told I love you too early did it scare you off? What was your response? After I said it she just kissed me and when we talked about it she just told me that it’s okay and was very reassuring.
Posted Dec 10, 2025, 2:59 AM UTC