Update on coming out

A while back I made a post about possibly coming out and I finally did it! (Sorry for the wait) also I’ve recently found out that I am gay! (I have a crush on a boy at school) .But beside the point I am now wondering how y’all find DL’s or like masc gays because all the fine boys in my school are straight (or they just act straight) or homophobic which makes it difficult for me to find a boyfriend. Also I was wondering where you guys find clothes… like I really want to buy a mini skirt for myself but I am too scared to walk into a store and get the weird looks from the cash register person and feel like people are staring. If anybody has any advice for these issues please tell me and thank you for listening to my coming out story!